What the Tarot Cards Want You to Know Before Your Wedding

1. Eight of Wands: Stay Present

Things are moving fast.

Your engagement. Your wedding. Your anniversary. Your next chapter. Before you know it, the thing you’re anxiously awaiting will become something you look back on.

So while the wands are flying:

• Put down the planning binder occasionally.
• Take the pictures.
• Go on the date.
• Notice the ordinary moments.
• Be where your feet are.

Enjoy this season because this is the one you’re in.

2. The Lovers: Choose Each Other

Yes, The Lovers showed up in a wedding reading. How delightfully on the nose.

But this card isn’t just about romance. It’s about love grounded in respect, consideration, good intentions, and safety.

Wedding planning brings decisions, deadlines, budgets, opinions, and logistics. Through all of it:

• Remember you’re on the same team.
• Speak kindly.
• Give each other grace.
• Come back together after the hard conversations.
• Let your relationship matter more than getting everything “right.”

It’s the passion and the practical.

And yes, someone’s got you.

(But like, you got you too, babe. You got you too.)

3. The Sun: Soak up the good.

Welcome to your sunny day.

Not a 95-degrees-and-humid sunny day. I’m talking blue skies, a warm glow, a gentle breeze, and the kind of afternoon that makes you forget your troubles for a minute.

The Sun says: look around.

• Celebrate what’s going right.
• Laugh when something goes wrong.
• Let people celebrate you.
• Notice how loved you are.
• Enjoy the party you’re working so hard to create.

And fun fact: marriage is among the traditional meanings associated with The Sun.

For all you babes with upcoming nuptials, consider your energetic weather forecast beautiful.

4. Queen of Cups: Feel all of it.

Joy doesn’t cancel grief.

Excitement doesn’t eliminate stress.

Gratitude doesn’t mean everything is perfect.

The Queen of Cups reminds us that we can hold multiple truths at once.

Maybe someone you love won’t be there on your wedding day. Maybe work is hard. Maybe family relationships are complicated. Maybe a big life change is waiting on the other side of “I do.”

Whatever comes up:

• Let yourself feel it.
• Lean on the people who love you.
• Offer yourself the compassion you give so freely to others.
• Make room for the tears and the laughter.

You don’t have to choose between being grateful and being human.

Born and raised in New Orleans, Mystic Myndee is an author and tarot reader with over seven years of experience reading at events across the south. Her work blends intuition, storytelling, and a grounded,compassionate approach. She enjoys helping others reconnect with their inner knowing and find magic in their everyday life.

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